عنوان الاستشارة: اضطرابات في الشخصية

Alsalamu alaikum wa rahmatuallah wa barakatuh...

I pray this message greets you in the best state of health and imaan inshallah..

I am writing on my behalf and also the behalf of my friend regarding our brothers who seem to be going through the same "phase" as we have come to recognize it. they have been both married and afterwards they changed immensely، Especially after both got into a divorce. my brother stopped praying and fasting and worsenned after his wife got married to anothe guy، My friends brother on the other hand is still praying and fasting alhamdulilah however they both have the habit of taking money and spending it "here and there" and placing our families in embarassing siutations. i along with my sister have tried speaking to my brother، However to no avail! he doesnt hold back from calling us "hypocrites" which he tends to call his previous wife and her husband as well (who is the sheikh). we dont know what further action are we to take to bring them back to the religion of allah and the straight path. my brother is a lawyer، And makes sure evryone knows it. my brothers have spent 10 Years paying off his college expenses، However he does nto appreeciate it the least bit and never holds back from telling them how "uneducated" they are and how "highly educated" he is and he knows that its them who shaped him into what he is. his salary is double what my brothers earn، However never did my mom & dad get a gift from him، However he is more than generous when it comes to giving strangers. in other words، He takes takes and takes and not only doesnt he give back but doesnt even thank nor appreciate it. its like everyone is made to be his slave and it is everyones obligation to provde for him! there is no hope of marriage for him because he will drive her nuts like he did to his previous wife. please for the sake of allah i ask you to help us out with dealing with our brothers. sorry i havent mentioned much about my friends brother، All iwrote is all i know... jazakumallahukhair

Fi amanillah

Salamu alaikum